Aug 06 2009
If you are a shy person
Dating seems to come naturally for some guys. It’s like they’re born with it, or something. But with some guys, especially if they’re shy, it just doesn’t come to them. Dating tips for shy guys are usually few and far
between, too.Most Dating Websites and books presume you’re outgoing and good looking, and have no trouble just walking up to a woman and professing their undying love.This is your secret weapon – remember it every time something happens, positive or negative, with a girl. You are what the majority of women want, so don’t lose that shy, quiet, introverted side of you.
1. don’t try to meet a woman in Bars. Bars are loud, smoky and usually full of people who are quite drunk. You’re not only usually going to find more of a Party Girl in a bar, but you’re also likely to be disappointed when you date her in daylight. Dating a women from bars it is kind of different (sometimes it works too) In the bar, in her drunken stupor, you may have looked like somebody she wanted to get to know better. In daylight, things and people can look very different. There’s no point setting yourself up for disappointment before you even start so -As I think just avoid the bars!
2. Join a few clubs. At first, don’t even worry about trying to find a girlfriend. Just sign up for a few clubs or classes that YOU might find interesting. Walking clubs, movie nights, political organizations, dog walking groups, sports clubs, French classes, cooking classes, computer classes - they’re all places where, most importantly, you’ll probably make some new friends. They’re also places where you might meet an interesting woman and when you do, she’ll probably have something in common with you.
3.When you do meet a woman you like, don’t think about her as a possible girlfriend. The secret to a great relationship is to be the best of friends. If you meet a woman you think you might like, get to know her first. Put it out of your head that she might be a potential girlfriend or wife. Instead, learn more about her, enjoy her company and have fun.
4.Don’t try to be somebody you are not. Dont pretend you are bad man, jerk,ladies man/play boy something like that. if you’re not. Women almost always hate that but, even if she likes it, who wants someone to fall in love with somebody they’re not anyway? You can’t keep it up for the rest of your life, so why even start?
by Cassandra James
